I'm ready to start dating again, but am not into going to clubs or bars to try to find a suitable guy. So instead, I subscribed to
eHarmony in July. I only opted for one month because I wanted to dip my toe in the pool and check out the water. And while they sent me matches "according to my personality profile", I didn't feel like any of them clicked. I had no correspondence at all, so that was $60 wasted.
In August, I decided to try Chemistry. I got an "interested in you" before I became a paying member. Of course, you can't see anything about this person unless you cough up the cash. Another $50 flew out of my wallet. My "interested in you" guy's name is Matt. I think he's pretty cute and I fit in the description parameters he set up. So, I sent two guided questions as the next step in our communication. He sent me his and I answered. It's been 9 days and no reply...
! Next, Scott send me some questions. I answer his; he answers mine. The next step is secure email through the site. He sends me a message, and I send one back. That was a week ago. Maybe I'm just expecting too much because our initial communications happened so fast, but damn it! This is so frustrating. This subscription ends on the day I leave for PA. If nothing comes of it before then, I'm done. If it's meant to be, it will be.
That's my post for tonight.
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